Sunday, February 16, 2014

Sunday Scribble: Discrimination can be Fun! or Choice is Discrimination!

SUNDAY SCRIBBLE 2/16/2014

Discrimination can be Fun! or Choice is Discrimination!

I have nothing worthwhile to say today.

I just wanted to start off with that, so don't feel like I will be offended if you decide to stop reading at this point.  I absolve you of any guilt you might feel.

So, I promised you all that I would keep this writing as scribbly as possible and avoid anything controversial, I am just warning you - if you DO continue to read, it's at your own risk - and it's not my fault if you are offended.

Good - Now that we have that out of the way.

To choose is to discriminate:

Discrimination.  Let's be honest, we all discriminate.  We all have our prejudices - even if we can't all spell it. Here are some examples:

  • Some of us like nuts in their peanut butter, and others like the creamy kind.  Heck, some of us are just plain nuts.  
  • You either like Opera, or you don't, but you don't HAVE TO like Opera.  
  • Smartphones - I pick a phone - because it's what works best for me - what I want. 
  • Apple vs. Windows - we're not forced to use both.
  • Chocolate chocolate vs White chocolate
  • Jam vs Jelly
  • Grape vs Orange
  • Coke vs Pepsi
  • Caramel vs. Fudge
  • diet vs regular
  • Premium gas vs Regular gas vs High Test gas  (all) vs Diesel


All of these are non entities - right.  But they represent someone who has either made it, created it while working in the field, gains or loses because of our choices.  Someone faces the impact of all of those decisions.  Because I like Skippy over the Acme brand doesn't mean that I hate the people at Acme, it just means I prefer this brand over another.

What is my point.  - First my point is NOT Discrimination against a person based on their personal characteristics is ok - It's simply NOT!  

We made those choices because of many reasons (not all necessarily good reasons):

  • It's what we were exposed to and like (our parents made us eat spinach and we found we still hated it - for example)
  • We took a chance and tried something new on our own (except that whole green goo I tried - stay away from the mystery meat)
  • A pretty girl convinced us to try something (or a handsome guy if you enjoy that)
  • A friend said 'Try this, you'll love it!'
  • The price of this is cheaper than that - so I'm going with my wallet on that.
  • This one is better looking that one - so I'm going to try that.


My point is: It's okay to discriminate in some areas - but know EVERY choice you make has a consequence.   We made those choices because it's what we like, but it's OUR CHOICE - not something that is dictated or demanded.

Choice can be a good thing - but don't be upset if your choice is a bad one.  Too many times I've heard cases of complaintitis where people complain about the choice they made:

  • Who I married
  • What I ate last night
  • Why did I get stuck working with you
  • How long do I have to stay
  • Too many bills
  • 'Yeah, I don't have a job cause I told my boss of.  I know how to do my job better than he/she does'
  • I have a job therefore I have to get up early to work


Hey, it's your bed that you made - now sleep in it.  And keep your complaints to yourself! 

Thursday, February 13, 2014

A Fellow Othello (PART 2)

Want to catch up on what happened prior to Part 2?  Click HERE!

THURSDAY TALES PRESENTS:
A FELLOW OTHELLO 
(Part 2)

Tommy was trying not to make it look obvious that he was now dating Rachel.  They didn’t want anyone talking about their business.  They sat at different tables, but they were sitting so that they could look at each other, thinking the whole time that no one noticed.  Of course that was wrong.
“Did you notice,” Gale said as she leaned into Barbara so that the bigger girl could hear her.
“Notice what,” Barbara asked.
“The way the two stare at each other,” Gale said a bit of mischievousness in her voice.
“What are you talking about,” Barbara asked.
“Can’t you see how Tommy and Rachel are staring at each other,” Jenny said from the other side of Barbara.  “Like they think they’re in some vampire story.”
Barbara looked at the two; she was sitting on the other side of the table from Rachel, but far enough away so that Rachel couldn’t hear the conversation.  Turning her head she looked over at Tommy and then back at Rachel. 
“Well, I’ll be,” Barbara said as she began to stand up.  “She said that she wasn’t going to date him.”
“Yeah?” Gale said in question.  “You must be kidding.”
“We’ll just see about that,” Barbara said as she lifted up her pants, pulling them over her belly. 
Barbara was a larger girl who had a big attitude to match.  She walked with a purpose in everything she did, and this time was no different.  She stopped right in front of Rachel, blocking her view of Tommy.  Rachel looked up at the large girl standing in front of her, taking all of Rachel’s attention.
“Hi Barbara,” Rachel said.  “What’s up?”
“Don’t give me that missy,” Barbara said shaking her finger and raising her voice.  “You said you weren’t interested.”
“What are you talking about,” Rachel asked.
“You said the last time I talked to you that you weren’t interested in Tommy,” Barbara said, turning slightly to point towards where Tommy was sitting.  “Did he trick you or something,” Barbara asked.  “Or are you just some hootsie tootsie girl that goes around stealing boys.”
“No way,” Rachel said, realizing that everyone at the table was beginning to stare. “He didn’t trick me,”  she almost giggled as she continued.  “And I don’t steal boys.”
“Then why are you dating him,” Gale yelled out from down at her side of the table.
Rachel pointed eyes of poison at the girl, but looked back at Barbara.
“Listen Barb,” Rachel said.  “I value my friendship with you, but I am my own person.”  Rachel explained.  “You know my history, how people have hurt me over and over again.  That I don’t trust easily.  There’s no way that I would allow anyone to ever trick me again.”   She paused as she looked up at the towering, larger girl.  “And this is America, I can date who I want.”
Barbara put her hands on her hips, a thoughtful look crossing her face. 
“But you said you weren’t interested,” Barbara asked, her voice filled with a hint of anguish at losing a potential boyfriend.  “How can you tell me that you changed your mind?”
“Well, because I didn’t say I wasn’t interested.  I said that I wasn’t sure if I was interested,” Rachel explained. “That it would take something to convince me that he was a nice guy and not some jerk.”
“So, I take it that he did something to prove himself to you,” Barbara asked, suggesting something lewd had been done.
“Yeah,” Rachel said.  “He turned out to be a really nice guy.”
“OOOOHHHHH,” Barbara giggled and the surrounding students at both Rachel’s and Tommy’s table copied; Gale and Jenny the loudest of the group.
“That’s not what I meant,” Rachel said, blushing.  Tommy’s friend’s elbowed him and slapped him on the back, Tommy ignored them.  “I just found out that he’s not some shallow jerk like the rest of the boys in this jerkwater of a school.”
“You all shut your mouths if you know what’s good for yah,” Barbara said, her eyes of poison looking between the two tables. She needed to think of what to say and couldn’t concentrate from all the noise. “I don’t want to have to beat any of you.”
And just as quickly the moment passed.  Those who had been disturbed by the noise and commotion had already gone back to eating.  By the time the lunch monitors had made it over to the table everything had quieted down.  
***

The bus was bumping along the road on its way to the observatory.  Looking out the side windows, on a small hill was the large building that had a dome in the center of it.  There was a large parking lot in front that was filled with busses, cars and people moving towards the entrances of the building.  It looked like a giant ant hill that was alternately getting filled and emptied at the same time by worker ants. 
Sitting towards the middle of the bus in a three-seater was Tommy and Rachel.  Sitting across from them was Gale and Jimmy who were also sharing a seat.  Gale was talking to Jenny who was sitting in front of Gale. Jenny had only sat next to Jimmy to keep Rachel from seeing him.  The story was that Tommy and Rachel were dating, but Jenny wasn’t convinced, she knew better.  Gale had told her that it was just some big cover to throw Jenny off the way that Rachel was going after Jimmy.  Of course Jenny was still upset with Jimmy because she thought he was cheating on her with Rachel and he had been on that phone call with her.  In Jenny’s fourteen year old brain, that’s all that could have been going on.  Rachel was bad news and Jenny didn’t like her.   
Gale and Jenny were sitting in the aisle seat talking back and forth as if they were talking about the most important things in the world, all the while Jenny ignored Jimmy who was forced to stare out the window as they drove along. 
Gale looked over at Rachel and tried to include her in the conversation, ignoring the dirty looks from Jenny.  Gale could handle that later, and Gale was certain Jenny would approve of the taunting she would be doing.
“So Rachel, you said that Tommy had proven himself.  How,” Gale asked.  “I’m not trying to say he did anything bad, but I figured whatever he did must have been pretty spectacular for you to trust him after your past.”
Rachel looked over at Gale, trying to gauge if Gale was trying to be rude or was sincere.  Rachel decided to give Gale the benefit of the doubt, even she suspected that Gale was trying to be a snake.
“He gave me this necklace,” Rachel said, pulling a silver chain from under her shirt.  “He said it was something his mother had worn before she had died, and that for as long as we went out I could wear it because he knew that I was special like his mom.”
“Wow,” Jenny said as Gale just looked on thoughtfully, considering that Gale might be wrong. Jenny quickly discarded that idea because she just couldn’t trust Rachel.
“That’s pretty incredible,” Gale said.  “Assuming…” But Gale didn’t finish the statement. 
“Assuming what,” Rachel asked. By this time in the trip Tommy had fallen asleep, his head leaning against the window, then leaning back as the bus bounced along, moving his head.  Gale gave an extra glance over towards him to make sure that he was asleep. 
“That it really was his mother’s and not something that he picked up from Walmart,”  Gale said and then saw the look on Rachel’s face.  “Which I’m sure he wasn’t lying about that.  You would never see something that nice there.” Gale backpedaled. 
A tear pierced Rachel’s eye, but she quickly wiped it away.   Pulling the necklace off her head, she stuffed it into her binder, thinking that she didn’t want it on her in case she lost it, but knowing that it was because she wasn’t sure it was real.  Which meant that if it wasn’t real then Tommy’s feelings for her were fake.

Gale watched from her seat, Jenny marveled at her friends ability to destroy.

Monday, February 10, 2014

Manic Monday!!

Introducing Manic Monday: 

Since our restart I have seen a noticeable increase in the amount of traffic coming to my site.  I really appreciate the increased support and confidence in my fans, friends and associates.  I know it can be difficult in our fast paced world to find the time to check out my site, read my musings and my short stories as well as spread the good word among your own friends, family and associates.  I wanted to show you my appreciation for all your help and support so I decided to go the extra step and create a MANIC MONDAY.   I know your question - and here's your answer.  On every Monday I will be posting a link for you to download a free book of mine from the kindle store.  Each week the book will be different.  As new books become available I will include them into the rotation as feasible.  
I offer this humble Thank you to all of you!  
Jim Baldini 
Our First Offering:


Storm Story: Triumphant: A book that I wrote during and after Super storm Sandy hit the Northeast and crippled most of New Jersey, New York and surrounding areas.  My family and I didn't struggle as much as others closer to the shore, but we still spent nearly a week without power but were fortunate to have family who did have power and let us stay at their house during the storm.  Thanks Connie and Fred!  I remember vividly looking at our situation and wondering what my children would do if stuck in Sandy without parents, friends or family to help out.  Many of my stories that aren't Science Fiction revolve around the simple concept of Bad Things Happen to Good People, and how they react.  This was one of those stories.